Is it possible for a woman in her 30s to find love with a man in his mid - late 30's who's emotionally mature?

I'm an attractive woman in my 30's who's been single for a year now. I've got a good job and great friends. All the single men I meet who are in their 30's all seem to be emotional cripples. Do 30-something single men who want a mature relationship exist? Or are they all committment phobic?